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Increase the Power and Influence You Have in Your Web Business, with Your Family and in Your Life by Engaging in thoughts that Validate you as a business, family and community leader.

Isn’t it true that the people around us, who care for us and support us often see our Greatness easier than we do?

I know it has taken years to really believe I am worthy of my success (yes it’s true). I AM a slow believer in myself.  No doubt about it, this is more to do with the inner dialogue that controls the amount of Influence and Power I’ve been able to bring to my business, family and life.  Chances are you can relate, maybe just a little, to what I have experienced as I’ve transcended my challenges and transformed my life.  This is something I wanted to share with you – and bring to front of your mind.

IS the dialogue you’re having in your own mind Validating you in ways that really work for you?

We really do rely on the validation of others, more often than we may realize – and others rely on your validation too.  Everyone wants to be loved, accepted and supported and VALIDATED in some way by as many people as possible.  We can often self-sabotage our success when the Validations we are getting from ourselves and others are negative.  It is true that we need to surround ourselves with as many people as possible that will Validate us in ways that are uplifting and weed out those that affect us negatively.

I found this FANTASTIC short film, all about Validation, infact it’s called VALIDATION.  I urge you to take 15 minutes RIGHT NOW and watch it.  The message is most uplifting and the experience will make you more powerful and meaningful with your positive mental approach to validating yourself and others – and the shift will happen INSTANTLY.  You’ll immediately approach your work, your family and yourself with a view to empowering and inspiring yourself and the people that you love and care about that are around you.

“Validation” is a fable about the magic of free parking … and a whole lot more!

We dont need a parking attendant for Validation and we cannot count on finding one each day.  In other words, we cannot expect other people to validate us unless we validate ourself first (love for self). 

Here’s a 3 minute meditation to celebrate YOU – YOU ARE AMAZING!  That’s all we need each day, 3 mins of validation by meditation.  Please take that 3 minutes now and reflect on the Brilliance, Influence and Power your possess – to transcend your challenges and transform your life – by helping others do the same too.  ENJOY!

I also found the lyrics to a great song about Validation of yourself and others, no matter what’s happening between two people.  I’ve posted them here for you to print out and stick on your wall or carry with you.  Also bookmark this page so you can come back anytime you want a ‘quick lift’ – you’ll get back on purpose for you and disconnect from any negativity surrounding you.)

 You ARE Amazing

(Alex Lloyd)

when all you want to do is rock, but you don’t want to bear the sock no more
when it’s just sweat that fills your eyes, Belated feelings that you have denied

when every wolf is at your door, just like a hundred times before
but you don’t want to leave the end

cause you were amazing, and we did amazing things
and I wouldn’t change it, cause we were amazing things

rebuilding bridges in your mind, your eagerness now is on the line
the plastic mountain at your feet, divided streets now as you look to find a seat

when every wolf is at your door, just like a hundred times before
but you don’t want to see the end

you were amazing, and we did amazing things
and I wouldn’t change it, cause we were amazing things

and I really didn’t want that push today
no I really didn’t want to end this way
but the things that seem to bind us
are the things we put behind us on this day

you were amazing, and we did amazing things
and I wouldn’t change it, cause we were amazing things

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My final thoughts about Validation belong to preserving the best you – whereever possible, take the ‘higher ground’ in emotional issues and walk away if you can (I know it’s not always easy) but some fights are worth avoiding.  Few fights if any will add value to validating you!  Sometimes, it is better to extend a genuine apology, let it go and move on – even if the other person does not.

Remember, YOU ARE AMAZING!  Live by that every day and watch your life and the lives of those around change – for the better!

Please leave your comments and feedback below.

I want to know you were here and if this helped you grow.

With love, Jen xo

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