Confucius is An Ancient Chinese Teacher, Social Philosopher and Great Sage Who Still Impacts Life and Business Today.
28 September – China Celebrates his life, his work and the work of all teachers (coaches and mentors) too.
If Napoleon Hill is the “Father of Great Success”, then there’s no question that Confucius is the “Father of ALL Great Teachers” and ran the Best Life and Business Coaching Program … EVER! Dont know much about Confucius? Start with this mini documentary, it will enlighten you … if you have a general idea, skip it and read on …
Today, thanks to the internet, many great teachers, educators, coaches and mentors like you are able to share your gift with the world, using your web business as a base for your global message of empowerment and education, in your expert field. On 28 September each year, China celebrates the birth of Confucius and in line with celebrating this great teacher, they celebrate the work of all great teachers of the world.
Throughout my development as a teacher, coach and mentor in my web business coaching and mentoring program, I have referred to the thoughts and wisdom of Confucious many times – usually in those times of need - where I’ve sought guidance greater than that which I can give to myself. I am a controversial person at times, I have never been afraid to speak my mind and to speak out when things and people appear out of alignment with intentions of goodness for people. This has, as you may well imagine, bought me many great allies and also some enemies – something I really prefer not to do, but then I battle with being in the knowledge of ill-intention and not taking action. It’s in these moments of confusion – (do I speak out or do I transcend the issue?) – that I have sought the clarity of Confucius and Confucianism.
Here are the basic values of Confucianism that you can use to guide you as a teacher too:
Mercy … Righteousness … Courtesy … Wisdom … Faith
It is on contemplating and reflecting these values that you are able to keep your intentions and actions in alignment with goodness for all people. I find these values also help you to ‘Let Go’ and let it be. Helping oneself and others at the same time, by referring to these values, is characteristic of the “worldliness” of Confucianism and Chinese civilization. I hope you adopt this course of ‘counsel’ and refer to them too.
To further help you continue to empower and educate people around the world, using the power of the internet and the best coaching program ever invented (Confucianism), here are eight of my favorite Confucius quotes that make an excellent representation of the attitude, approach and actions of a web business owner and teacher. (Who would have known something written so many thousands of years ago would directly reflect with relevance to how we live and do business today!)
Eight of the Greatest Quotes of Confucius, the Social Philosopher and Teacher that work perfectly for Web Business owners, Teacher, Coaches and Mentors today:
1) If you enjoy what you do, you’ll never work another day in your life.
2) Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.
3) Respect yourself and others will respect you.
4) The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.
5) When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.
6) Be not ashamed of mistakes and thus make them crimes.
7) He who will not economize will have to agonize
8) I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand.
… and I thought this one was an excellent ‘Life Success and Happiness’ quote, for those moments when things dont go well with someone else and you really need to let go …
“Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.”
… and finally, this from Confucius:
“To be able under all circumstances to practice five things constitutes perfect virtue; these five things are Gravity, Generosity of Soul, Sincerity, Earnestness and Kindness. ”
Hey, as a side point of interest, even Google Salutes Confucius on this day to celebrate his teachings, work, impact and leaderdship. It’s their way to make a tribute – by adding his picture to their logo for the day – that’s pretty cool and perhaps representative of the philosophies the people of Google work to align themselves with too. If that is true, what an excellent example of their leadership (rather than domination).
Google Celebrate Confucius too
To all educators teachers, coaches, mentors and people that empower others around the world … I wish you ”Happy Teachers Day”.
Please leave your thoughts, comments and feedback below.
I want to know you were here and if this helped you grow.
With love, Jen xo
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What I’m about to present to you is not easy to understand or accept. It will probably hurt your heart at first. When I first saw this story, I was totally heart broken. I sat at my desk crying out loud, it was really tough to watch – my heart was physically hurting. Then there is an AMAZING follow up story that shows you where there is love, there is hope … and Love Transforms Lives!
You and I see very little of the pain and suffering that true isolation can bring, especially to children. This mini movie will open your heart, maybe in a way you were not prepared for it to be opened … but PLEASE watch on for how the power of people like you and I can and does transform lives. What you’re about to see will give you that added inspiration and insight to help you transcend your challenges … and change your life, so you can change the lives of others.
The Heart-breaking Story of Sam and Esther and their big sister Jane
Love is all that Matters … Where there is Love, There is Hope (Follow Up Story)
Love Transforms Lives … Big sister Jane Sings and Celebrates “You Changed Our Lives!”. No matter your religious orientation, this little girl is living a new life thanks to the love of people like you and I:
WHEN LOVE TAKES OVER ….
TRANSCEND YOUR CHALLENGES SO YOU CAN TRANSFORM LIVES!
USE THE POWER OF THE INTERNET TO SHARE THE GIFT YOUR BUSINESS GIVES, SO YOU CAN GIVE THE GIFT OF RELIEF AND JOY TO OTHERS TOO.
In 2010 I have the honor and privilege to educate, empower and share the power of the internet with entrepreneurs in Namibia – those capable of accessing opportunities like you and me. It will be my hidden agenda on that trip to affect people around the world with stories and opportunities for you to be “the big sister” (or big brother) of children like Sam and Esther. Get focussed on solving your own money and life issues, so together – you and I can be the change we want to see. We are all in this together …
Please leave your comments and feedback below and PLEASE share this page with others. Our collective power will make the change we want to see.
With love, Jen xo
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A TRIBUTE TO AMAZING WORK-AT-HOME WOMEN IN LEADERSHIP – IN BUSINESS AND AT HOME!
A SPECIAL GIFT FROM THE GODMOTHER OF WEB SUCCESS TO YOU … ON MOTHER’S DAY
I am truly in constant awe of all the mums (moms) around the world that I have the privilege of coaching and mentoring. You WANT it all, no doubt about it but you also DO IT ALL! You juggle family management, kid management, money management, relationship management, health management … and so it goes on.
I think Women in Leadership – in your Business, in your Family and in your Community makes you the busiest people on earth with some of the greatest responsibilities we have to contend with – mind you, I work with many Men who carry all the same responsibilities too. Today I want to share this hilarious tribute to all Moms (and Dads) who might wonder why they get so exhausted at the end of an average day.
Here’s a video tribute to you – it ’s just an average 24 hours of a Work-at-Home-Mom! ENJOY (I had tears in my eyes from laughing so much by the end of it).
Here are the lyrics for you too – for a laugh … and if you can add any more to the list, let me know in the comments below. I’d love you all to share them here.
Get up now, Get up now
Get up out of bed, Wash your face
Brush your teeth, Comb your sleepy head
Here’s your clothes, And your shoes
Hear the words I said, Get up now
Get up and make your bed
Are you hot?, Are you cold?
Are you wearing that?
Where’s your books and your lunch and your homework at?
Grab your coat and your gloves and your scarf and hat
Don’t forget you got to feed the cat, Eat your breakfast
The experts tell us it’s the most important meal of all
Take your vitamins so you will grow up one day to be big and tall
Please remember the orthodontist will be seeing you at three today?
Don’t forget your piano lesson is this afternoon, So you must play,
Don’t shovel, Chew slowly, But hurry
The bus is here, Be careful
Come back here, Did you wash behind your ears?
Play outside, Don’t play rough, Would you just play fair?
Be polite, Make a friend, Don’t forget to share, Work it out
Wait your turn, Never take a dare
Get along, Don’t make me come down there
Clean your room, Fold your clothes
Put your stuff away, Make your bed
Do it now, Do we have all day?
Were you born in a barn? Would you like some hay
Can you even hear a word I say?
Answer the phone, Get Off the phone
Don’t sit so close, Turn it down
No texting at the table
No more computer time tonight
Your iPod’s my iPod if you don’t listen up
Where you going and with whom and what time do you think you’re coming home?
Saying thank you, please, excuse me
Makes you welcome everywhere you roam
You’ll appreciate my wisdom
Someday when you’re older and you’re grown
Can’t wait ’til you have a couple little children of your own
You’ll thank me for the counsel I gave you so willingly
But right now, I thank you NOT to roll your eyes at me
Close your mouth when you chew, Would appreciate
Take a bite, Maybe two, Of the stuff you hate
Use your fork, Do not you burp, Or I’ll set you straight
Eat the food I put upon your plate
Get an egg A, Get the door
Don’t get smart with me, Get a Grip
Get in here I’ll count to 3
Get a job, Get a life, Get a PhD
Get a dose of reality
I don’t care who started it, You’re grounded until your 36
Get your story straight, And tell the truth for once for heaven’s sake
And if all your friends jumped off a cliff, Would you jump too?
If I’ve said it once, I’ve said at least a thousand times before that
You’re too old to act this way, It must be your father’s DNA
Look at me when I am talking, Stand up straight when you walk
A place for everything, And everything must be in place
Stop crying or I’ll give you something real to cry about
Oh!
Brush your teeth, Wash your face
Get your PJs on, Get in bed
Get a hug, Say a prayer with Mom
Don’t forget, I love you
**KISS**
And tomorrow we will do this all again because a mom’s work never ends
You don’t need the reason why, Because Because Because Because
I said so I said so I said so I said so
I’m the Mom ….. The mom … The mom … The mom … The mom TA-DA!
I then found this video response – my husband watched it and thought it was really VERY funny so I thought I’d share this one with you too. Of course, Work-At-Home-Dads have a whole lot more words to share each day. ENJOY … with Love!
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Did You Enjoy this tribute to Work At Home Moms too?
Please share YOUR comments, experiences as a parent and feedback below.
With love, Jen xo
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HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY with Love!
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Increase the Power and Influence You Have in Your Web Business, with Your Family and in Your Life by Engaging in thoughts that Validate you as a business, family and community leader.
Isn’t it true that the people around us, who care for us and support us often see our Greatness easier than we do?
I know it has taken years to really believe I am worthy of my success (yes it’s true). I AM a slow believer, no doubt about that but it was more to do with the inner dialogue I had (and in some aspects of my life still do have) that controlled the amount of Influence and Power I’ve been able to bring to my business, family and life. Chances are you can relate, maybe just a little, to what I have experienced as I’ve transcended my challenges and transformed my life. This is something I wanted to share with you – and bring to front of your mind – IS the dialogue you’re having in your own mind Validating you in ways that really work for you?
We really do rely on the validation of others, more often than we may realize – and others rely on your validation too. Everyone wants to be loved, accepted and supported and VALIDATED in some way by as many people as possible. We can often self-sabotage our success when the Validations we are getting from ourselves and others are negative. It is true that we need to surround ourselves with as many people as possible that will Validate us in ways that are uplifting and weed out those that affect us negatively.
I found this FANTASTIC short film, all about Validation, infact it’s called VALIDATION. I urge you to take 15 minutes RIGHT NOW and watch it. The message is most uplifting and the experience will make you more powerful and meaningful with your positive mental approach to validating yourself and others – and the shift will happen INSTANTLY. You’ll immediately approach your work, your family and yourself with a view to empowering and inspiring yourself and the people that you love and care about that are around you.
“Validation” is a fable about the magic of free parking … and a whole lot more!
We dont need a parking attendant for Validation and we cannot count on finding one each day. In other words, we cannot expect other people to validate us unless we validate ourself first (love for self). Here’s a 3 minute meditation to celebrate YOU – YOU ARE AMAZING! That’s all we need each day, 3 mins of validation by meditation. Please take that 3 minutes now and reflect on the Brilliance, Influence and Power your possess – to transcend your challenges and transform your life – by helping others do the same too. ENJOY!
I also found the lyrics to a great song about Validation of yourself and others, no matter what’s happening between two people. I’ve posted them here for you to print out and stick on your wall or carry with you. Also bookmark this page so you can come back anytime you want a ‘quick lift’ – you’ll get back on purpose for you and disconnect from any negativity surrounding you.)
You Are Amazing
(Alex Lloyd)
when all you want to do is rock, but you don’t want to bear the sock no more
when it’s just sweat that fills your eyes, Belated feelings that you have denied
when every wolf is at your door, just like a hundred times before
but you don’t want to leave the end
cause you were amazing, and we did amazing things
and I wouldn’t change it, cause we were amazing things
rebuilding bridges in your mind, your eagerness now is on the line
the plastic mountain at your feet, divided streets now as you look to find a seat
when every wolf is at your door, just like a hundred times before
but you don’t want to see the end
you were amazing, and we did amazing things
and I wouldn’t change it, cause we were amazing things
and I really didn’t want that push today
no I really didn’t want to end this way
but the things that seem to bind us
are the things we put behind us on this day
you were amazing, and we did amazing things
and I wouldn’t change it, cause we were amazing things
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My final thoughts about Validation belong to preserving the best you – whereever possible, take the ‘higher ground’ in emotional issues and walk away if you can (I know it’s not always easy) but some fights are worth avoiding. Few fights if any will add value to validating you! Sometimes, it is better to extend a genuine apology, let it go and move on – even if the other person does not.
Remember, YOU ARE AMAZING! Live by that every day and watch your life and the lives of those around change – for the better!
Please leave your comments and feedback below.
I want to know you were here and if this helped you grow.
With love, Jen xo
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Automating Website Selling Systems to leverage your time and reduce costly overheads
Increasing Your Online Revenue Streams with our powerful AAA System
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In Just One Day as Jen’s Guest You’ll Gain Crucial and Practical Insights Into:
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July 10 is International Happiness Day – A day to remember to celebrate your state of happiness as often and as fullsomely as possible.
No one wakes up thinking …
“May I suffer the whole day”
What is happiness, and how can we all get some? Buddhist monk, photographer and author Matthieu Ricard has devoted his life to these questions, and his answer is influenced by his faith as well as by his scientific turn of mind: We can train our minds in habits of happiness. Interwoven with his talk are stunning photographs of the Himalayas and of his spiritual community.
Here’s a short story I prepared on this blog post to celebrate Father’s Day – a symbolic celebration of being someone’s dad. Fathers Day is celebrated at different times in different parts of the world. BUT this is not just or only about Fathers, what I’m about to share with you is about experiences of children (and that’s all of us) – we are all children of our biological and/or adopted parents. This is one common thread we all share along with the lasting affects of these relationships.
Our experiences in childhood really do seem to impact our thoughts, feelings and behaviors in our adulthood and depending on your own personal ability to process, embrace and erase those elements that have the greatest impact will directly affect our beliefs and decisions as adults. It’s a complicated topic and one that can bring up warm, loving and dark, hurtful memories and that’s something for the Pros to talk about really, not me.
What I want to share with you here is the greater awareness of our words – written and spoken and the impact they can and do have on others, especially children. It’s very easy to forget this and say things in a defensive state or perhaps as a deliberate attack on someone. Especially as parents, it’s incredibly easy to snap or go off at a kid going on and on – I remember my own parents – they had immense patience with me and my brothers but occasionally my mum would snap and we’d run for the hills! Understandable and forgiveable but it doesnt hurt for all of us to take a moment and reflect on the wonderful opportunities and experiences we are given and learn to control our words, live for the enjoyment of the present – it really IS a gift … and enjoy children, especially when they are exploring their pleasures and feeling fulfillment in their lives.
Have you seen the movie ”The Pursuit of Happyness“? (Yes spelt with a ‘y’). It stars Will Smith and his real-life son who play a father and son in the movie. Here’s a scene from the movie where the father forgets momentarily, the power of his words and the impact they can have on others – and maybe even ’steal their dream’ (it’s very touching so be ready) …
“Dont ever let somebody tell you you cant do something, not even me
….. You got a dream, you got to protect it!”
Maybe someone close to you - your parent/s, a sibiling, relative of influence or maybe a teacher once told you that you will never be good at ‘it’ … maybe you’re hearing that now as you pursue your ultimate lifestyle by building a profitable and sustainable web business portfolio. Maybe you’re being affected by it so strongly that YOU have started to believe it too!
A few terse words from someone that matters to you can impact your life for a long time and if you dont have dreams bigger than the ’drama’, you will probably give up … what else have you got? It seems the EASIEST thing you’ll ever do is believe someone else’s negative perception of you and give up!
As I’m writing this, I am personally experiencing a very difficult time from some people in business that is hurtful, absolutely un-necessary and is designed to affect me negatively. It’s not easy to let that kind of deliberate anger and fear on their part blow past you, but I know I have to BE bigger than the drama and not let someone else steal my dreams.
(Sharing that with you has made me quite emotional and I feel like a goof sitting here at my computer with the tears in my eyes blurring the words on the screen as I type but I want you know, EVERYONE has someone that can steal your dreams – IF YOU LET THEM!)
NO MATTER WHAT, it IS your birthright to complete your human journey to fulfillment and happiness, no matter what anyone around you says – we can choose to concede, we can stand and ’try’ to resist or we can connect with our inner truth and move forward … no matter what … and do it with the belief and bewilderment of a child. The Pursuit of Happyness, no matter how it’s spelt is a journey you should never want to stop being on.
Maybe you are like me, not perfect, maybe you make mistakes, maybe you say things that (even if you didnt know it) rob others of their Pursuit of Happyness … the journey of discovery and fulfillment is always about being the “BEST YOU … YOU CAN BE” … that’s all anyone can ask of you and me.
Here’s a great song from Coldplay, it’s a 3 minute meditation FOR YOU, FROM YOU. I have just played it to myself and it’s a wonderful way to reconnect with yourself and understand you really can Do it, you really can Have it, you really can Be it!
The song is set to highlights of the movie and I’ve included the words below so you can follow them, sing them, print them, share them, enjoy them!
“Fix You” by ColdPlay
When you try your best, but you don’t succeed
When you get what you want, but not what you need
When you feel so tired, but you can’t sleep
Stuck in reverse
And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can’t replace
When you love someone, but it goes to waste
Could it be worse?
Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you
And high up above or down below
When you’re too in love to let it go
But if you never try you’ll never know
Just what you’re worth
Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you
Tears stream down your face
When you lose something you cannot replace
Tears stream down your face
And I…
Tears stream down on your face
I promise you I will learn from my mistakes
Tears stream down your face
And I…
Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you
Sometimes when things dont go quite to plan for me, I have actually stood in front of the mirror and talked to myself and said things like “You CAN Do This Jennie”. Of course we cannot fix others, it’s their journey and their pursuit that will help them grow. Enjoy YOUR journey – Your Pursuit of Happyness (You can Fix You as you Grow).
Oh, Happy Fathers Day to all the dads out there and Happy YOU Day too!
Please leave your comments and feedback below.
I want to know you were here and if this helped you grow.
With love, Jen xo
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Enjoy the Space that Comes with Giving Up and Letting Go … Align Yourself with Love, not Revenge!
If you don’t ‘let it go’ you will never grow.William McMullin
There’s a great ‘Wealthy Life’ Motto I just love, it’s helped me move through challenges with people both personally and professionally (coaching and mentoring can be challenging at times). The Wealth Life Motto is “If you dont have anything valuable and helpful to say to or about someone, best you learn how to let IT go.” (IT being whatever YOUR issue is with that other person – YES, it’s YOUR Issue.) I know that’s hard to hear but it’s true. The moment YOU let it go, it exists no longer for you.
We can make ourselves emotional wrecks and labour over experiences that happened years, months, weeks and even days ago. These experiences can bring you nothing but an inner misery. Now for some people, that might be what they actually like – you know there’s comfort in familiar experiences. Life for them is a series of inner misery experiences, because they have never learned how to LET GO!. BUT IF YOU REALLY want to live an Extraordinary Life, a Wealthy Life, then you gotta behave like an extraordinary person and learn to let it go … with love.
Here’s a quick insight from one of my favorite Mentors and Authors, Stuart Wilde. Here he talks about people (you and me when we’re angry) being like a Swamp Monster because we refuse to “Let It Go”. “If I fight with you … we both get held back ….”
(Turn up the volume, he speaks very softly … and his point is made right away. I had to replay it a few times to catch the first few lines.)
Have a disposition of COMPASSION and TENDERNESS for Yourself and for Others
… an act of Peace and Forgiveness … and Self-Love
Letting Go is NOT Easy for many people – they can spend years angry and unforgiving – and of course attract more of THAT kind of experience in to their lives. I think alot of people make themselves sick, mentally, physically and emotionally with anger. Sometimes we ’pick fights’ for the sake of the fight, when you could just move on. (I know I’ve done it.) We’re a funny lot aren’t we … wonder what we look like as a species being ’studied’?
It’s time to lift a weight off your shoulders, your mind and your heart … and Let It Go, with Love. Teach Your Children by how you LIVE, not by what you say.
Here’s a process I have gone through personally to find forgiveness for my own mistakes and my perceived mistakes of others, to help me and them Move On.
I imagine a small version of the person and that they are floating in a bubble just touching the palm of my hand at around eye level in front of me. I then take a few deep breaths in and out and as I’m inhaling and exhaling, I’m saying to myself “I’m breathing in love for me, I’m breathing out love for you“. I do that a few times. Then on an outwards breath, I blow onto the bubble and the person to ‘float’ them away from me. I do it with a genuine smile on my face and I say these words to myself “I let you go with love” and like watching a helium-filled balloon disappear in to the distance, I watch them being blown away until I can see them no more.
I do this whole process when I am alone and feeling like I would like and could do with some more self love. This is particularly evident if I’m awake thinking about someone or something or I’ve driven home mulling over a bad phone call or situation. It brings an inner peace and love and puts a smile of contentment and love back in to my heart and my face.
Unfortunately many people you encounter in your life will blame you, abuse you and accuse you – for their misery. A quick and easy process like the one I use can help you keep centered and aligned with love … for the sake of you and the people that really love you – let those that love you experience your true inner beauty and do not let the sum of what other’s misery might project on you to be representative of you. YOUR LIFE AND THE GIFT YOU HAVE TO SHARE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THAT!
If you cant fix it, LET GO … WITH LOVE and MOVE ON!
Please leave your comments and feedback below.
I want to know you were here and if this helped you grow.
With love, Jen xo
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